tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4097380420547655284.post3519583232931832741..comments2023-11-02T10:18:32.944+00:00Comments on this is for the hearts still beating: A good friend is hard to find.Mariahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09386498713968802030noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4097380420547655284.post-21217326294937840082010-08-16T18:59:41.962+01:002010-08-16T18:59:41.962+01:00I think I have the same problem with "friends...I think I have the same problem with "friends". I've got one best friend whom I've been best friends with since my first day of secondary school and then I have a couple of friends from college. <br />But other than that I had a few friends who I counted as my best friends just disappear from my life, one as soon as I got a bf even though I tried to make a real effort with her, and the other one I'd worked with and once I left my job I never heard from her although we used to hang out all the time.<br />I get down about it sometimes as I question what I do wrong, but at the end of the day I think both people need to make an effort, and as long as I feel like I have then it's down to the other person, and if they can't be bothered with me then maybe they aren't the type of people I'd want as friends.Finding Mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12006905393899464332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4097380420547655284.post-18747611286143318132010-08-16T17:01:52.290+01:002010-08-16T17:01:52.290+01:00i think - just do whatever makes you happy! i have...i think - just do whatever makes you happy! i have the same "problem" - even i accepted it as a fact of my character that i dont get along much with "friends" when i am too involved in a friendship... i dont like this "have to feeling" and stuff - and i dont party a lot anymore and i dont drink and and and - i think friends who you can also contact after yrs are the best friends - who arent mad at you even if you dont say a word to them for a year or so..<br />hope you figure out what is best for you!<br />and thx for following my blog i will read some entries from you now :DSandra Valeriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11620373398569129302noreply@blogger.com